fall in love with a child : Paraphilias Forum (2025)

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Levi [INFP]
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Aaron [ESTP]
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i dont know is it because were always together? she seems happy when im around. its almost 2 yrs now since we met. then one day she asked me to wait for her to be old enough and get married her. she said she loved me although i do love her too. im just too scared, what if i wait for her then if she's grown up she'll find another guy as her age. i dont want that to happen im happy when were together. i know its forbidden.

how should i know if her feeling for me is true? can i really fall in love for her too?

Just wondering, are you a pedophile? That might make the answers a little more clear. If you are in fact a pedophile, (not judging, I am too) then there would be little to no point in waiting for her. When she becomes an adult, you would likely not be attracted to her anymore.

But to answer the question, it is rather unlikely that she will actually wait up for you until she is 18. You also can't trust everything a child that young says 100%. Even if she means it now, she's only 7 and she will most likely have a change of heart at some point due to the huge age gap. Sorry to be so blunt.
Coming from a pedophile, yes it is very possible for you to fall in love with her. I've experienced falling in love with a kid, and I can tell you, those feelings are 100% real, and extremely painful.
My advice to you is, enjoy what you have with this girl. It sounds to me like you have a very close frindship, and you're very lucky for that. Don't worry about being her husband 13 years from now. Just be her friend right now

zohan0227 wrote:i dont know if i am a pedophile but this is the first time i fell in love with a child i broke up with my girlfriend just to be with her. i dont know maybe my mind is sick or something but my heart keep telling that i want to be with her "forever" we kissed on lips once but thats it no more than that.. damn im really confused i dont really know what to do. she's very happy when im with her same as mine. i dont want us to be part..

ok, I feel the need to add this now. Kissing on the lips is a HUGE no. Though this may seem like a mutual romantic relationship from your point of view, and possibly even hers, it can NOT appear that way to any one else. Even if nothing sexual happens, that is a quick way to get accused of molestation and land yourself in prison. You can be friends with her, but legally, you can be nothing more than that. I know it hurts, but you have to be realistic. If you wanna talk, feel free to pm me anytime.

HowardCL wrote:Young kids always like to fantasize about being married like there parents are and they love playing house and sometimes kids will say things like they wish they were married to you and all that but that is just kids being kids and that is it. I know me saying something like this is crazy but I think its true. If you are 24 and she is 7 then I think you should back off from any type of relationship with her that can get you into trouble and let her find her own way and someday she will meet someone that is her own age. She might not know better but you def do so I would say you can be her friend but that is it. Yet that is just my two cents.

Well said Howard!

I know it must be difficult for you zohan0227. I've had very strong feelings for kids and I long to be in a relationship with them too. But it's just not sensible since they're just children. And she's probably just playing 'pretend.'